This hymn has never made an impact in my life as it does today despite my being an Adventist. It forges so much hope in me that even at the loss of my Godfather, friend and mentor G S Aidoo, as astute lawyer and Pastor of the SDA church, which song was amongst his favorites. If anyone is downhearted and weak and tired may they fined strength in this even as I did, listening to it all over again.
I often wake up with songs/hymns on my lips and this morning as I looked at photos of my great grand baby this song started running through my head. Wonderful song. I just thought I would share it.
The amazing thing about these songs, is that they do not fade way as compared to our contemporary so called Gospel of our day.
Our precious brothers and sisters who sung most the songs contained in our hymn books where of no doubt moved by the Holy Ghost beyond measure to usher the spiritual inspiration for the ages to come. To the intent that one hundred years from now if rapture tarries these songs shall still have the same inspiration as if they has been released a day ago.
I had written part of this lovely hymn down, started singing it and looked up this hymn. Lo and behold, I saw all of these wonderful comments! I grew up in near Raleigh, went to school in Raleigh and our church in Knightdale, N. C, sang this song.
My father's family has in the past had family reunions and now that he and his eleven siblings have passed. It is up to my generation to make plans for our family's next reunion... I thought of this song and I have changed a few words of which I will share. I thought it would be appropriate for the family to read it together as our blessing:
Bless be the tie that that binds our hearts in FAMILY love,
The Fellowship our spirit finds is like to that above.
Before our Father's throne, We pour our ardent prayers
Our fears, our hopes, our aims, are one - Our comforts and our cares.
We have our mutual woes; Our mutual burdens bear;
And often for each other flows the sympathizing tear.
When we asunder part, it gives us inward pain,
But we shall still be joined in heart, and one day we will meet again.
From sorrow, toil, and pain, and sin we shall be free;
And perfect love and oneness reign through all eternity.
Lord bless the FOOD before us and our bodies to your service,
Bless the FAMILY beside us, and the LOVE between us.
May it be your will, LORD, that we will be together again.
In JESUS name we pray, Amen
43 years ago when my husband and I got married we didn’t have a large budget for our wedding so instead of paying a soloist for special music we decided to have the 200 wedding guests at the end of the service sing this lovely hymn together with us. I always feel the joy of that wonderful day when I hear this song again. And so many of our friends said they remember our wedding because of this hymn.
At the end of January 1985 I flew back to the United States from Taipei. As soon as the plane took off, I already knew that the home meetings would develop to the present stage. At first the home meetings recovered some who had not been meeting for a long time. Those who had not met for twenty or thirty years came back to the meetings. How dear it was when they all came together, and how sweet it was to sing,
"Blest be the tie that binds
Our hearts in Christian love....
And perfect love and oneness reign
Through all eternity."
Hymns, #860
If an old sister who had not been meeting for twenty years had sung this song, she would surely have burst into tears, and everyone else with her. However, beautiful flowers fade, a full moon wanes, and good things do not last. The meeting was good the first time, the second time, the third time, but by the fourth time it had become tasteless. And by the fifth time old wives' fables had begun.
In practice, we still have many natural concepts. We like the Lord's Day meetings because we can sit and listen to the preaching of experienced brothers. The more we listen, the more we enjoy. In contrast, we do not like the small group meetings. At first, the small group meetings recovered some who had not been meeting for a long time. It was so dear when some who had not met for twenty or thirty years came back, and it was so sweet to sing, "Blest be the tie that binds / Our hearts in Christian love; / The fellowship our spirit finds / Is like to that above" (Hymns, #860). When a sister who had not been meeting for twenty years sang this song, she burst into tears along with everyone else. However, beautiful flowers fade, a full moon wanes, and good things do not last. This kind of meeting was good the first, second, and even the third time, but by the fourth time the meeting was rather tasteless, and old-womanish myths began to creep in by the fifth time (1 Tim. 4:7). Because of this, many saints who desired to seek the Lord felt that the small group meetings were not so enjoyable.